140: When Strong Becomes Survival: How to Reprogram Beliefs After Parentification feat. Julie Amy (Pt. 1)

What if the strength you’re most proud of is actually what’s keeping you stuck?

So many women were praised early for being strong, capable, dependable—the one who holds everything together. But over time, that strength can quietly turn into endurance. And endurance, when rooted in survival, comes at a cost.

In this episode, we explore how emotional strength can become a coping strategy rather than a source of health. You’ll hear a raw, honest conversation about childhood roles, silence around emotions, shame, and the long-term impact of always being “the strong one.”

This isn’t about blaming your past. It’s about understanding how survival patterns form—and how healing begins when you no longer have to carry everything alone.

Stay with this episode if you’ve ever:
• Felt exhausted by always being the responsible one
• Learned to minimize your own needs
• Confused strength with self-sacrifice
• Wondered why rest or receiving feels uncomfortable

By the end, you’ll understand the difference between strength that depletes and strength that restores—and why awareness is the first step toward real freedom.

Part 2 continues the conversation by exploring what happens when healing begins, how identity shifts, and how strength can be redefined in a way that brings life, not burnout.

This is a conversation for the woman who’s ready to stop surviving—and start living.

Connect with Julie:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forkidssake/
Website: https://julieamy.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/julieamy.2020/

About the Host:
Megan Babcock is the founder of It’s Your Story to Tell. She is an award-winning coach, bestselling author, speaker, and podcast host whose work sits at the intersection of faith and neuroscience. She equips leaders to regulate their nervous systems, heal from trauma, and rise with purpose.

After more than twenty years in healthcare and her own journey through trauma, surrender, and spiritual renewal, Megan launched It’s Your Story to Tell in 2023. What once felt disqualifying became the foundation of her calling. She now helps others transform pain into legacy and live aligned, resilient, Spirit-led lives.

Connect with Megan:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/meganbakerbabcock
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscoachmeganbabcock
Website: https://bit.ly/ItsYourStorytoTell

Resources:
Sacred Presence and Sacred Pathways: https://www.itsyourstorytotell.com/Sacred-presence-&-pathways
Unstuck Book: https://a.co/d/7CrzzZA
Free Transformation Resource Center: https://www.itsyourstorytotell.com/freeresourcecenter